Wednesday, June 28, 2017; leaving the Twin Cities,
through Alcester, South Dakota & on to Nebraska.
Back on October 15, 2015 (here), I wrote a tribute to my Mother who
had passed away some five weeks earlier, just five days short of her 91st
birthday; the last paragraph from that posting is reproduced here:
I could go on, but I think
you get the picture. Her life was full,
and busy and full of memories … she was busy in her church activities (she was
getting ready to go to one of her church groups, when she had her fainting
spell) … and she still drove her own car (I was not nervous as her passenger
two years ago) … and we had (and have) our memories at her Memorial. And sometime in the Spring or early Summer we
will go to the little cemetery on the gentle slope in the northwest part of the
little prairie town of Alcester, and place her ashes beside her parents, and
listen to the breeze rustling through the prairie grasses, and to the songs of
the prairie birds as they welcome one who has been long away.
It
wasn’t until this last Spring that we four Siblings, myself, Jill, Jan &
Doug were able to get together to lay her ashes to rest beside her parents, in
the little cemetery in Alcester, South Dakota; a village that hasn’t really
changed much in size since she was born there all those years ago. The gentle slopes upon which she and our
Grandparents lie, are bathed in agrarian tranquility, and it took little to
imagine her watching us, at age eight or so as she was when she left this tranquil
prairie community, and perhaps skipping about when watching us became too
uninteresting. And as I foresaw in that
quoted paragraph above, there was a rustling breeze that came and went through
the prairie grass, and the songs of prairie birds were carried gently on it
then, just as there were when I stopped by at Sundown on the 28th of
June, the day I began my westward journey back towards Oregon.
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The
Casket for Mom’s ashes, carved by my brother Doug. |
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My
sister Jill (closest). brother Doug, and younger sister Jan. |
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Our Grandfather’s
Mandolin, now in brother Doug’s custody.
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Final
Resting Place. |
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Old Homestead, settled by our Great-great
Grandfather Olav in 1872;
last owned by an Edson, a cousin of Mon’s, in the
1990s. |
On the last days of March her memorial stone was not
yet ready, and by now it had been emplaced, and so on an incomparably blue-sky
day, I headed southwest from the Twin Cities, and once on Hwy 169 out in the
suburbs, I never touched an Interstate.
I crossed one at Worthington, MN, but headed south into the NW corner of
Iowa, passing within a few hundred yards the highest point in Iowa (at about
1670’), and within a short time passed into southeastern South Dakota, on the
county roads. All through southwestern
Minnesota, through Iowa, and on to Alcester, I was struck by the fresh greens
of early Summer, before they become the heavy greens of a few weeks hence.
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Our
small grouping, Mom & her Parents. |
I arrived about twenty minutes before Sunset, passing
the local baseball game being played as I approached the tranquil hallowed
ground. There was a man tending to stray
weeds, and upon approaching the Edson plot, he came over and offered to see to
those wild weeds that were there. My
time being short, and preferring not to have cut off stems to look at, I demurred
and thanked him for his consideration.
He would tend to them after I had left.
Quiet moments were passed with a younger Mom skipping about the
gravestones, and a young-woman Mom standing by her Mother’s headstone, and a
Mom in her late twenties when I was young and we lived in the forests of
northern Wisconsin … the happiest time of her life, she told me more than once …
and other ages of Mom all gathering there … as the Sun set and the evening came
on with dusky fingers from the east. A
warm evening, and tranquil, as I bid farewell, waving to the weed puller &
passing the now floodlit baseball diamond … perhaps the many ages of Mom would
go and watch the local team … on through Alcester, heading south a dozen or so
miles, and then west towards the town of Vermillion, SD. As I headed west through the gloaming a flash
along the roadside; first one, then another, then many in the fields and
meadows and groves … fireflies, as I had not seen them since I was a child! They were with me all along my route through
Vermillion, and on south from there six miles, crossing the Missouri River
bridge into Nebraska and my campsite on the river, just a half a mile from the
bridge at Mulberry Bend National Wildlife Area, where a deer greeted me upon
arrival, and the fireflies flashed away as I prepared for sleep, the only
person at this site … a magical end to a lovely day.
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Morning
Glories to bed for the night. |
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And
so the sets the Sun. |